The Woman Behind The Voice
Before the titles, platforms and movements, I was just a girl trying to survive.
Growing up without the love of an earthly father, I found myself searching for something I couldn’t name, carried questions no one ever answered, and searched for those answers in all the wrong places.
Despite wearing strength like a second skin, I found myself stuck in the exhausting cycle of trying to be everything for everyone, quietly wondering if I was anything at all. I smiled for the world while silently asking God, “Is this really all there is?”
But God…
He didn’t come with the noise of fanfare or the force of human validation. He came quietly, through His Word, His whispers, and His relentless pursuit of my heart.
It was in the quiet undoing when I had nothing left to prove and nothing left to hide that I heard Him call me “Daughter.”
It didn’t happen overnight. Healing rarely does, but as I let His Word seep into the cracks of my soul, something began to shift, not because I figured it out, but because I finally surrendered.
The Woman Behind The Voice
Before the titles, platforms and movements, I was just a girl trying to survive.
Growing up without the love of an earthly father, I found myself searching for something I couldn’t name, carried questions no one ever answered, and searched for those answers in all the wrong places.
Despite wearing strength like a second skin, I found myself stuck in the exhausting cycle of trying to be everything for everyone, quietly wondering if I was anything at all. I smiled for the world while silently asking God, “Is this really all there is?”
But God…
He didn’t come with the noise of fanfare or the force of human validation. He came quietly, through His Word, His whispers, and His relentless pursuit of my heart.
It was in the quiet undoing when I had nothing left to prove and nothing left to hide that I heard Him call me “Daughter.”
It didn’t happen overnight. Healing rarely does, but as I let His Word seep into the cracks of my soul, something began to shift, not because I figured it out, but because I finally surrendered.
He reminded me:
“You are not what hurt you. You are not what left you. You are Mine.”
And that changed everything.


Jennifer McSoul
CounselorI went from trying to earn love to finally resting in the steady love of my Heavenly Father. From wandering through an identity crisis to becoming a woman secure in who God says I am. And from striving for applause to finding peace as a servant content with the smile of her Maker.
And now, I carry this same message to women everywhere:
You are not too far gone. You are not too broken. You are not behind. You are being built, and nothing surrendered to God ever stays broken.
Wholeness isn’t in the striving. It is in the surrender, where God takes the pieces you thought were too far gone and crafts them into something whole and holy.
You mastered survival. Now it’s time to learn wholeness.
My Assignment Is Holistic
Through clinical care, biblical strategy, and prophetic insight, I guide women back to the version of themselves God always saw, before heartbreak, performance, or silence told them otherwise.
I am the founder of Girls With Standards, a faith-based initiative discipling teen girls and young women to live not by culture, but by conviction from God’s word, through community, devotionals, live gatherings, and mentorship.


As a board-certified Women’s Health Nurse Practitioner, I bring over a decade of experience in women’s health, specializing in hormonal balance, fertility, menstrual disorders, and menopause. My approach is holistic and Christ-centered, bridging medical insight with ministry, and offering care for both the body and the soul.
My Books
In 2024, I published my first book, Love Is Blind, Marriage Is the Eye-Opener, a raw, truth-filled book preparing women for love that lasts and a marriage that reflects God’s perfect will. In 2025, I launched Live By High Standards, a 40-day devotional designed to renew the mind and rebuild biblical discipline.


My Books
In 2024, I published my first book, Love Is Blind, Marriage Is the Eye-Opener, a raw, truth-filled book preparing women for love that lasts and a marriage that reflects God’s perfect will. In 2025, I launched Live By High Standards, a 40-day devotional designed to renew the mind and rebuild biblical discipline.


What Makes Me Different?
I don’t teach theory, I teach from the fire I walked through and the faith that brought me out, and speak the truth that pulls women out of performance, and into purpose. I understand the science of the body, the condition of the soul, can diagnose a hormonal imbalance and dismantle a limiting belief in the same session.
Whether I am ministering in a room of thousands, mentoring one-on-one, speaking at a women’s summit, or caring for women through my medical practice, I bring more than presence; I bring transformation.
“You’re not behind. You’re being built. And nothing surrendered to God ever stays broken.”— Dr. Obot Tigah
What Makes Me Different?
I don’t teach theory, I teach from the fire I walked through and the faith that brought me out, and speak the truth that pulls women out of performance, and into purpose. I understand the science of the body, the condition of the soul, can diagnose a hormonal imbalance and dismantle a limiting belief in the same session.
Whether I am ministering in a room of thousands, mentoring one-on-one, speaking at a women’s summit, or caring for a woman through perimenopause, I bring more than presence; I bring transformation.
“You’re not behind. You’re being built. And nothing surrendered to God ever stays broken.”— Dr. Obot Tigah
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You mastered survival, now it is time to learn wholeness.
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